The Gardener 41: Long to Speak the Deepest Words
The Gardener 41: Long to Speak the Deepest Words - meaning Summary
Fear That Hides Longing
This poem presents a speaker who repeatedly wants to reveal deep feelings to a beloved but is held back by fear—fear of ridicule, disbelief, lack of reciprocity, exposure, and perceived cowardice. Each stanza shows a defensive strategy: joking, lying, hardness, chatter, or proud distance. Those protective maneuvers, meant to shield the heart, instead distort intimacy and perpetuate the speaker’s pain and isolation.
Read Complete AnalysesI long to speak the deepest words I have to say to you; But I dare not, for fear you should laugh. That is why I laugh at myself and shatter my secret in jest. I make light of my pain, afraid you should do so. I long to tell you the truest words I have to say to you; But I dare not, being afraid that you would not believe them. That is why I disguise them in untruth, saying the contrary of what I mean. I make my pain appear absurd, afraid that you should do so. I long to use the most precious words I have for you; But I dare not, fearing I should not be paid with like value. That is why I gave you hard names and boast of my callous strength. I hurt you, for fear you should never know any pain. I long to sit silent by you; But I dare not lest my heart come out at my lips. That is why I prattle and chatter lightly and hide my heart behind words. I rudely handle my pain, for fear you should do so. I long to go away from your side; But I dare not, for fear my cowardice should become known to you. That is why I hold my head high and carelessly come into your presence. Constant thrusts from your eyes keep my pain fresh for ever.
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